After you have created attraction its time to get some tips on how to seduce a woman.
The seduction part of the interaction with a starts after you approached her, made her attracted to you, got her number, went out with her and you took her to your place or she invited you to hers.
So how do you finally seduce a woman that you are interested in. How do you go in for the kiss? How do you invite her back to you place? How to seduce a woman?
If you need advice on the approach and on how to create attraction look the other articles first, you will get best results if you follow the correct order.
The rule is that you only start the seduction when the girl is attracted to you, if she is not attracted she will obviously not want to have sex with you. The seduction phase is all about logistics (getting her to the bedroom) and closing the deal by overcoming any last minute resistance. More on that later…
Like I said in other articles you need to have the mindset of a man, not the mindset of a “pussy” or a “nice guy”. This does not mean that you have to behave like a jerk. Women like masculine men, that are funny, take the lead and are not embarrassed of their desires.
If you buy her stuff, give her drinks, try to get her drunk, be her “entertainer man”, talking about boring stuff and making your conversation sound like a job interview… the you are not going to get intimate with her. Your job as a man is to make her laugh, make her feel good emotions, make her feel like a sexual woman and then nature and the hormones do the rest.
An attractive man has a good sense of humour and is MASCULINE. One of the most important things about being masculine is taking the lead… do you expect the women to take the lead? That is ridiculous… There are three options: you let her take the lead, you take the lead or you let “fate” decide… Which one do you think is the correct one?
Answer: you take the lead. You are a man and the fact that you came to this website proves that you want her. Be a man, take the lead and make her feel like a sexy woman. If you wait for things to happens by themselves it will take to long and she will lose interest in you.
Before taking her to your place it is best that you make out with her. Making out and kissing is a trust and comfort builder and it is a lot of fun!
The best way to do this is to have something fun to do at your place. I usually tell some funny stories about my travels, and later in the evening I say “Lets go back to my place so I can show you my pictures of Cuba…”
You can do this with about anything, if you play the guitar tell her you want her to hear a song you have been practicing… whatever. What you say is just an excuse to invite her to your place. If she likes you she will take the bait even if the excuse is very stupid. She wants to be with you so its just a formality to get things going back to your place.
You should do this at the right time, don’t do it at the end of the date when she is already tired, do it after dinner or when you had one or two drinks. You don’t need to spend hours on a date, and you don’t need to have sex right when you arrive, you can continue getting to know her better at your place. It will help her get familiarized with your place and she will feel comfortable there.
If you already made out with her and she goes with you to your place you have a 90% chance of having sex with her because it means she is very interested.
I hope these tips are useful, if you want to know more read my article on last minute resistance (LMR). This deals with the objections she might have with having sex with you to soon.
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