If you are wondering how to get a girl to like you, you have come to the right place. To make a woman like you, you need to know how to create attraction.
I already wrote an article about how to attract women I will make some more important points about attraction and give you some good tips you can implement right away.
I have received a few emails of guys asking how to get a girl to like them and normally they are thinking about that special girl and are stuck in oneitis land. There is no magical way to make the hottest woman in the room like you just because. There is no magic pill that will change everything to the better instantly, you have to take the time and make an effort to make your skills with women better.
When you are in love with a special girl and she pays no attention to you, she likes you as a friend or she has no intereste in you then you are going to have a hard time getting over it. The best thing to do is to develop your skills with women. This way you can get other girls and maybe even that special one that you like so much.
Every girl likes a guy that is confident, fun, playful and has a positive energy that she can gravitate to. Nobody likes insecure, sad and angry people. So work on your life and your attitude to become a better person. This has many advantages:
When you go out with a girl you have to be unattached to the outcome. This means that you want to see what happens between the two of you as opposed to you wanting to impress her and taker home.
This is also called a screening mentality. It means that you are not performing for her, trying to impress her or win her over. Its just an interaction between you and her, and if she plays her cards right she can get something more.
This sets the right tone again, it shows that you are confident and comfortable around hot girls and that you are used to that attention. It shows that you have been going out with other girls and that leaves her thinking “Does he like me?”…
If you come over as insecure and needy she will think that you are out or her league and she will lose all the interest she has in you… just because you put her on a pedestal and treat her like a goddess.
Women are attracted to real men and not wussies. If you have your life together, if you know what you want in life, in your job and in your women and do something to get it then you are perceived as a real man.
Women want to know that they are with a strong man that is better than the others. You have to start developing your life and set and achieve your objectives… you have to start a winner. Then women will be more attracted to you and you will feel happier because of your better life and because of the women.
In the seduction community people call this being an alpha male. The alpha male is the leader of the wolf pack, or the silver-back gorilla in the jungle. He is the boss and gets all the female wolves and the gorilla ladies.
Most people need a leader and want to follow someone… this goes for men and women. Women are the submissive gender and they look for strong men that they can look up to when its time for tough decisions or protection. This is one of those things that the feminists don’t like to admit but its biologically programmed.
You have to be able to project that you are strong and the easiest way to do this is to become strong. Be better at the things you do, don’t do half arsed things… be better than the next one and do your best to become a winner in life. Remember: Don’t be a wussy. The winners get the money, the glory and the girls.
As discusses before you have to be a challenge. Be playful and funny, tease her and make her feel different kinds of emotions. Always keep her guessing, don’t verbalize your interest in her because it serves you nothing. Always keep her guessing. “What does he think of me?” “Does he like me? He is always playing around with me but I’m not sure… he has other hot girls chasing him…”
Always flirt with the girls and make it playful. Its fun for both of you and it amps up the sexual tension. Women are very emotional beings and they love the flirting game more than anything!
Even if your social skills are not well developed you will have a big advantage by using a screening mentality.
This means that you are screening girls, you don’t give her certainty that you like her… always keep her guessing. Flirt with her and tease her and always keep her laughing and guessing.
When you take the position of being the one screening and selecting the women, they won’t be screening and dismissing you. There are many nice guys that take girls out on expensive dinners and other dates – most women have no intention whatsoever of sleeping with the guy that buys them all the stuff and worships them.
If you are that guy… and have been going out with an attractive women for 2 months and you still haven’t slept with her I have some bad news for you… you are being used for paying her dates while she is sleeping with another guy.
Don’t take this personally, women do this all the time. You have to make sure you are the one sleeping with her and not the one that is just paying for all the dates!
From the moment that you are too much of a nice guy women will treat you accordingly. This means getting in the friend zone and being the one that is always there for her and doesn’t get any. You should have many female friends, but you determine if they will be friends or not. Not the other way around.
As I said earlier, when you take the mentality that you are selecting and screening you turn the interaction in your favor. If you let her take the lead and be the little princess on a pedestal you are the one at a loss because you throw away your male personality and become a pussy.
I hope this article has enlightened you about how to create attraction in women and be a better man. Seduction has 3 main phases: approach, attraction and seduction. You need to know how to pass all the tests and handle the transitions to get the girl to like you! You can read my other articles on each subject, on how to approach women, how to attract women and how to seduce women. Good luck and go do some approaches!